I wonder….do actions always speak louder than words? I have a friend whose Mamma used to say “People only do what’s important to them”. It’s become one of my favorite quotes. That with the ever popular saying that “Actions speak louder than words” has me wondering if this is completely accurate however. I think actions can also be misleading or misinterpreted. I believe then, that we also need words to clarify intent and feelings behind our actions. So, in my opinion, I would say that we need actions and behaviors as well as clarifying statements if we are to expect people to always accurately understand what our intentions are.
I also think that there are things better left NOT unsaid. We can behave in a way that demonstrates our intentions or desires, but if something were to happen tomorrow and we no longer had another day to say the things that were on our minds and in our hearts to those we care about most… would our actions be enough? Would we regret not having said the words to accompany those actions? Would our loved ones be left with the longing desire to hear those precious things from us, in spite of our actions?
I believe there is real power in actions. I also believe there is real power in words. I think the best use of these powers is when we combine the two and make ourselves open and vulnerable to those we cherish. There is little room for doubt when the two are combined. There is less chance for misunderstanding, and less need for assumptions by those who are left guessing as to what our thoughts and feelings are.
There is peace in knowing. Peace in knowing what those closest to us think and feel, and peace in knowing that those we love have that assurance of what’s in our hearts.
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